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Dear Dearest,

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Dear Dearest,  I found myself in a domestically violent situation. My partner, my ride or die, my pencil (I was his sharpener), has completely loss control of his apparent drug addiction. He has hidden this from me for the two years we have been together. Before this time he never hit me let alone r...
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You Don’t Get A Pass For Being An Ass - Oh, Brett

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Brett Favre, sit yo self righteous, sanctimonious, memory loss, NFL playing, Trump supporting ass down because you ain’t never been a Black woman. You ain’t never had to manage your mental health because of the war against melanin. You ain’t never had to be the minority in a sport where they didn’t want you there. Favre decided to address...
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When Your Death Becomes More Important Than Your Birth

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Breonna Taylor was born on June 5,1994, a birthday in which this once young, vibrant beautiful “sista” should be celebrating. Instead she lies in a grave remembered more by her death than her life. A female George Floyd of sorts with less universal buzz. This is an unfair state of events that this racist nation can’t find justic...
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How Deep Mindset Work Helped Me Find the Courage to Make My Career Transition

How Deep Mindset Work Helped Me Find the Courage to Make My Career Transition

I've been semi-retired of clinical medicine for almost 4 years now.Initially, I found myself coaching burned out physicians… helping them to recover, find careers they love, and even start their own businesses outside the box. However, as I listened to my inner voice, I was led back to my healing roots, and that opened up a career opportunity I would have never imagined to have.

Let me back up a bit. I'm a regular old family doc by training. Well, that's the way things began, anyway.I remember choosing the specialty the summer after first year. I worked with a rural family doc who was a full spectrum doc. For those of you who are Family Medicine like me, you know what this means.He did everything!For me that was fascinating. However, as you know, what we see as med students is often a sliver of the real world as it pertains to practice.As I progressed I discovered integrative & functional medicine, and that is where my real love settled as a family physician. However, after 7 years of having a private practice (even one where I set my own hours, and ran my own ship) became less than fulfilling after awhile.I felt like I had outgrown that purpose. 

During my time as an integrative practitioner, I trained as a practitioner in Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnosis. I did so because I was coaching patients and I felt it would add to the depth and results of my coaching. I was right. The results were phenomenal. It was at this time I was learning about burnout… it gave voice to something I had experienced back in residency. It was in this, that I began to see a new future. I loved being an integrative medicine doctor, but I thought to myself, "what if I could use this work to help and heal other doctors who are suffering from burnout?" Of course my inner critic was telling me that this was "crazy"."Who are you to say you are an expert in coaching and healing doctors from burnout?" "You are not experienced enough…" "no one knows who you are" … "you are not important enough"… that little voice said."No one is going to want to do this NLP work…they are going to think you are over the top… Too "woo".". It was met with the question of "can I even really make a difference with something this big?" "will my voice even matter?" ​

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I Got Boundaries - Young People Schoolin’ Us About Mental Health

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It is hard to speak about it but I have battled with my own mental health since I was about 4 years old. It was always chalked up as me being too sensitive about things but my inability to cope was off the charts, even some 45 years ago. Never consistently seeking professional help, I suppressed emotions of anxiet...
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100 Years and the Hate is Still Strong - Tulsa Race Massacre - Added to the Memorial Day Landscape

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One of the greatest cover ups in American History happened 100 years ago today in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As a Black Woman, thoughts of my people’s progression have often crossed my mind. Yet they have been saturated by the stories of the sharecroppers living like indentured servents long after the Emmancipation Proclamation, blinding me to...
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Decoration Day, Martyrs of the Race Course

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Giving all honor and praise to God who covers and comforts us through every season and situation. Dedicating this piece to the men and women who once served this country and have left us with a legacy of fortitude. Thank you for your service.  What is Memorial Day? It is a day when we commentate those who have passed away, that ...
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Don’t Say Nothing About Memorial Day If You Denied The January 6 Riots - Politic’in

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As I watched a bunch of fake, hateful Republicans reject a commission to investigate what occurred during the January 6 Riots, this morning I couldn’t stomach as Fox News and conservative tweeters came down on Madame Vice President Kamala Harris for tweeting, "Enjoy the long weekend”. Titles such as, “Vice President Kamala Harris under fi...
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This Black Man Right Here! Take a look, it’s in a book, a Reading Rainbow . . .

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One of my passions without a doubt is literacy, writing and books. Most don’t know that reading has the power to break down the complexities of our ever changing society. It can serve as one of the greatest injections of empathy and compassion. It promotes articulation and analytical thinking while fostering a remembrance of hop...
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You Don’t Get A Pass For Being An Ass - Oh, Chrissy

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AvI never thought I would be sitting in the chair of the elders, quoting such greats as Maya Angelou; “When people show you who they are, believe them”, taking up the essence of Iyanla, “You gotta do the work” yet being classy like Michelle, “When they go low we go high”. But here I am, talking about some people I don’t even know yet oper...
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Curvy Call

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Calling on all curvaceous, voluptuous, full figured, confident models. Tell us your story in 2000 words or less. Give us some insight to the modeling world and what it means to represent ladies of all sizes. Tell us the ups and downs but most importantly tell us the victory you have by being such a trail blazer. Be creative!!! Be interest...
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Honoring DJ Blessed - Restoration

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Bad things sometimes happen to really great people. A believer who uses his life to benefit others, a ministry leader who shares his gifts to fight social injustice, a DJ who can battle anyone in the secular world but instead chooses to use his talents to give others hope, is who DJ Blessed is....
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Writers Remorse - A Tribute to Joel Odom

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I met Joel a couple of years back as we had begun our own Black Renaissance of sorts here in Charlotte. Days and evenings spent at Queens Coffee Bar, building about change in our communities and the end to the consistent violence that encompassed our streets was discussed. During our first encounter he had hi...
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Dear Dearest, She Big Mad. What kind of ratchetness?

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Dear Dearest,  My man is hard working and loves his kids more than anything on the planet but he is a complete narcissist and has too many children (over 6). He makes posts on social media, which includes everything but me. He will post our house, with him and his kids, our car with him and his kids, even our dinn...
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Your Failure Was Before COVID

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As a certified educator with over 25 years experience, I struggled with the thought of homeschooling my child. He needed it, falling behind with each new year, fighting the system that had a prison bed ready for him but financially I could not stop working to commit to such a task. With every year that passed, I requested help and guidance. Th...
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Victory Within - Victoria C. Cooper

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I have taken on many projects, some with great success while others were big flops. But as I became the sole owner/CEO of Agape Voice Publishing LLC, I prayed for serious authors with messages that resonated in reader's spirit. I prayed that God would bring people back to words. I prayed that my true calling of writing would be answered. I had no t...
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Designed For Your Body Not Your Size

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​My body is truly and distinctively mine, starting with a small upper portion, ushering down to my full and curvy hips. Basically I have a big butt and no breast and it has led to many frustrating moments in the department stores. It was either my top or bottom (especially in dresses) looking a...
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Kenneth Simpson - New Author Spotlight

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 Agape Voice Publishing LLC is proud to publish the dramatic, authentic and cutting edge work of new author Kenneth Simpson; “The Other Side of Trouble”. He truly has a story to tell, both personal and through this fictional piece. Themes such as redemption, forgiveness and determination are explored while giving ...
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So Proud To Be Her

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Many did not understand why I was frozen to the TV yesterday watching her move, watching her sing, watching her being saluted and taking command. I sat in my pearls in tears, watching her speak, watching her enter, watching her take over; a takeover of a spot that only a time as this could fulfill. She was golden, indigo, M...
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Entrepreneur Spotlight - Chariel Dye, A Boss

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Minnette NuMe Smith - January 1st - "Entrepreneur Spotlight" - RMS Homemade Scrubs This is my business homegirl. Everyone needs one to network, pound with and support. No matter what she has my back. Business partners come and go but this one is always up for the challenge of new opportunities. Failure is nothing but lessons to her. It ne...
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