Relationships are often complicated, and I don't believe any relationship can be more complex than the one between a mother and her daughter. My mother, Marie Ceasar , passed away on July 20, 2022, and I often reflect on our journey these days.  My mom was a young wife and mother, married at the age of 15 and giving birth to her first child by...

I had the most amazing weekend with the incredible Charlotte influencer, April A. Carter, of the “So Long Single” enterprise. She is a wife, mother, author, teacher and coach. This dynamo has taken relationship coaching to the next level and her passion is derived from the love that she has for her husband. “I just want to go out with som...

Dear Dearest,  My man is hard working and loves his kids more than anything on the planet but he is a complete narcissist and has too many children (over 6). He makes posts on social media, which includes everything but me. He will post our house, with him and his kids, our car with him and his kids, even our dinn...

Dear Dearest,  On my 42nd birthday, I realized I wanted to start dating again. My 22 year old son was on his own and as a school bus driver, I was not putting time into myself like I should. So, me and the girls got dolled up and hit the club scene. It had been almost 20 years for me. That’s where I met an in...

As we hit upon a New Year, a new documented season, a new reason to try more, a new journey that's in store. I'm not writing resolutions or creating a list of "to dos", I rather write my last piece of 12 reasons of why I don't fool with you. I learned in January clowns in the circus can't be reformed with big smiles across their faces yet pulling y...

Dear Dearest,  I read your posts everyday and you are truly inspiring. But sometimes you sound so sad. Are you depressed?  A faithful follower.  Dear “Faithful Follower”,   I’m so humbled that you said you are inspired by me. I just want God to use me, so you are inspired by the God in me. Glory!!! That means everythin...

There is a message planted in every father. If you discover it, that will be his greatest gift to you. If you miss it, he will take it to the grave, in hopes that the spirit will see you through.  A real father is the sun of every child. But the sun sometimes misses a plant or two. The sun causes drought and doesn’t ever&nb...

Yeah ya'll already know we be on some freaky ish......and it's hella exciting because our connection is like none other!! Know what I mean jelly bean?? (as my auntie used to say)  The kind that when he breathes in, so do I.......and when he exhales, it's like the ebb & flow of the moon pulling on the waters of the earth.  The ish is s...

 Aaaaaaah Yes!!  Ain't nothing like cummin home from work and kickin off EVERYTHING all the way down to my socks! I turned on my playlist and Eric Bellinger began to bellow out of my speakers........slowly putting me into a zone that was all too familiar.  For a moment, I get lost in his lyrics and start singing..........